I have lived abroad for many years, and returning to the US, I realized that most service here is basically like you get at a taco stand in Mexico, which means, your drinks arrive, then your food, and there you go. God forbid you should want or need anything else. Now this is not, obviously, at every restaurant in the U.S. just at most. When we go to a restaurant, we are paying for someone to take care of us. This seems to be lost on servers in the U.S. We are paying you to bring us our drinks (plural), our meal (the way we order it), and to come back and make sure everything is good, to see if we would like anything else. When we order a bottle of wine, you should pour it, and correctly. A bottle costs about $60 (on average for a decent wine), and you probably expect at least a 20% tip. Let's say you make $8.00 and hour, and our meal takes about an hour (for ease of calculation), and let's say there are three of us. Let's also say the average appetizer plate is $10.0...